From Rescuing to Empowering: Transforming How We Support Each Other

A sweet little video recently caught my attention: A dad sets up an obstacle for his toddler and, instead of rescuing him when he struggles, the dad has him try again on his own. This simple act of empowering rather than saving got me thinking.

Whether in our personal or professional relationships, parenting, or leadership, the urge to rescue can be strong. We want to shield those we care about from pain, struggle, or failure. Further, we’re often taught that saving others is an expression of love and care. But what if, instead of saving, we focused on empowering and equipping? What if, rather than taking control, we offered the tools, support, and confidence they need to navigate their own path?

In Relationships:
Fixing things for others can create imbalance. Equipping them to face challenges fosters development, stronger bonds, and greater collaboration.

In Parenting:
Empowering children encourages resilience, skills, and confidence, helping them trust their own abilities and fostering independence.

In Leadership:
Shifting from micromanaging to empowering creates a culture of trust and autonomy, boosting morale and driving success.

Empowerment isn’t about stepping back entirely; it’s about stepping in with intention. The next time you feel the urge to swoop in and save, pause. Consider how you might empower and equip instead. It’s one of the most impactful gifts we can give.

With warmth,
Amy